The Middle East contains endless gems to explore but can cause a real culture shock for western travelers. Middle-Eastern countries are typically more fervent than western nations when it comes to upholding traditions, following old customs, and obeying local laws. Making a social blunder in the Middle East can often result in a lot of negative attention so it’s best to be aware of the etiquette rules expected of foreigners.
What You Should Never Do
One of the biggest issues that can get westerners in trouble in the Middle East is the tendency for public displays of affection. While it’s commonplace in countries like the United States to hug others in public or even kiss and touch in other ways, this kind of behavior is frowned upon in many Middle Eastern nations. It may even land you in trouble with the law in some destinations, such as Dubai.
Islam values modesty and humility so it goes against social norms to lose your temper in public. Any public tantrums, including arguments, swearing, and verbal abuse, will make you stick out like a sore thumb and can even attract unwanted attention from the authorities. It’s best to always be polite and civil, even when the other person doesn’t deserve it.
Taking photos without explicit permission is a big no-no in the Middle East. Before you take photos of any building or person, always ask permission. In many cases, locals will want tips before they agree to be in a photo. There are also certain government buildings and areas that are illegal to take photos of so it’s always a good idea to get permission first.
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Although giving out compliments is considered polite in the west, this isn’t something you want to do in the Middle East. Again, Islam values modesty and humility, so excessively praising locals is likely to make them feel uncomfortable.
In certain areas within the Middle East, you might be approached by street children asking for food or money. While it’s tempting to hand things out to them, this actually encourages begging and the locals won’t thank you for it. Instead, donate to an approved charity to help improve the lives of children in the country you’re visiting.
Ways To Show Courtesy In The Middle East
One of the most important things for western tourists in the Middle East to remember is that you’ll be expected to dress modestly. Even if the weather calls for shorts and strapless tops, it’s a sign of courtesy to respect the local traditions and cover-up. For women, wearing a headscarf isn’t necessary if you’re not entering a mosque, but it is necessary to make sure you’re covered from the shoulders down.
There are some areas where you can get away with wearing less clothing, such as at the hotel pool. But, in general, it’s a good idea to always remember to dress modestly.
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The dining etiquette expected in the Middle East is quite different from what many westerners are used to. It is not uncommon to be served your meal from a communal bowl rather than from individual plates. In this case, remember to only eat out of your section of the bowl. Cutlery might also not be provided, in which case it’s important to only ever eat using your right hand. It’s not considered rude to pick from your teeth at the table, even though many westerners are horrified at the thought of this!
It’s important to always be respectful when visiting any foreign country. In the Middle East, be extra respectful at religious sites as religion tends to be central to daily life. You might not be allowed to enter certain religious buildings if you’re not a Muslim, in which case it’s not acceptable to take photos of the inside while you’re standing outside either. Remember to always be quiet and courteous, especially when people are praying.
Inside mosques, even non-Muslim women are encouraged to wear a headscarf in the prayer hall. Both women and men should wear modest loose-fitting clothing.
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A Special Case: Ramadan
Ramadan is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. If you happen to be traveling in the Middle East during this time, there are a few things to be aware of.
Ramadan is a month of fasting, prayer, reflection, and community. Muslims fast between dawn and dusk and while visitors are not expected to fast too, they are expected to show respect during this time. It’s considered bad form to eat and drink in public during the daylight hours of Ramadan. Instead, only eat and drink inside the confines of your hotel.
In some countries, smoking and chewing gum during daylight hours might also be seen as a sign of disrespect. Check up on the local laws and customs before you travel.
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